Thursday, February 28, 2013

Day 59: Final Moments + Honorable Mention

Today I learned...
...that people can hear you even when they are minutes from death. I sat with a patient today who was imminently dying. He was unconscious, breathing in a labored fashion, and unresponsive. And he was alone. So I sat there for almost an hour and I talked to him. It's a little embarrassing even to say here, but I told him that he didn't have to be afraid. I told him that his angels were with him. I told him that he didn't have to wait for anyone or anything. And then, because some people wait for someone to be near and some people wait to be all alone, I told him, "I'll be right back" so he would know I was leaving, and I went out. He died within 5 minutes. I truly believe he heard and wanted to take his last breath in peace.

Today I am thankful for...
...this email I received!

Dear Arielle,

It is with pleasure to inform you that you have received an Honorable Mention for the Polizzi Award for this year. Congratulations! Phyllis & I nominated you with the attached nomination write up. Voting was done via all faculty from all of our MSW programs at our last meeting. Your honorable mention recognition will be presented to you at the Spring Field Colloquium in Scranton on Wed. March 27th & you will be recognized along with the MSW Polizzi Award Winner at this year's Graduate Hooding Ceremony. We are honored to have you as the honorable mention recipient of this award! I am hopeful that you will be able to attend to receive the recognition that you so deserve at each venue! Congratulations! I am copying your field liaison and current & past field instructors on this announcement as well to share this good news! Thank you for all you do as an MSW student & soon to be social worker! Congratulations!


The Polizzi Medal is awarded to a graduating MSW who overall in the SSWAS stands out in class, in field, and in the social work profession and community, etc. The award recognizes the student for outstanding educational performance and service in the filed of social work. The Word document that was attached to the email (the nomination essay itself that was composed by the faculty) was so long and touching and so filled with kind words that it brought tears to my eyes. I am not sharing it, because I'm too embarrassed and it made me blush. The person who won the first place award goes to school in Scranton (a couple hours away) so is unknown to me...as I was unknown to many of the faculty up there who vote on this recipient of this award. As per a conversation I had with Dr. Black a few days ago, I think Dr. Black (Phyllis, the director of my social work program) was a little upset that I did not win, because the instructors on the other campus don't know me. BUT I WAS SO HONORED JUST TO BE NOMINATED let alone win the honorable mention. I tried to impress this upon her. I really am blessed.




Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Day 58: Sharing + Spring Break

Today I learned...
...(or re-learned?) that sharing good experiences with people is part of what makes them so good! "Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow" has always been one of my favorite proverbs. 

Today I am thankful for...
...spring break from grad school officially beginning! I have no class for a week. YAY! I need the down time. Work and hospice will continue...but no classes at night until March 11th!


Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Day 57: Cat Angel + Cat Healers

Today I learned...
...that there is a beautiful little cat who lives at a nursing home here in my city. She has lived there for YEARS and mingles with all the old folks on the floor on which she lives. She is 21 years old which equals 100 human years exactly. She fits right in with all the other elderly residents! She was a doll of a cat and just so friendly. I watched her hang out with some old ladies while I was there and heard her little purr. She sleeps in a basket on the counter top of the nurses station. This cat. God. She was so sweet and skinny and old - JUST like a little old lady. There are a lot of residents and she just trots (very slowly) down the hallways between wheelchairs! It was so special!

Today I am thankful for...
...my own kitties...who talk to me individually, run to greet me at the door when I come home, snuggle me for hours, and who have LONG lives ahead of them! I credit them (especially Tumbler) with healing a lot of my "baby emptiness" and can often be found whispering "Thank you" into their little faces when we cuddle at night. :-)





Monday, February 25, 2013

Day 56: Necessary Time + Dinner Invitation

Today I learned...
...that using a vacation day to write a paper is NOT a waste - it's a necessity.

Today I am thankful for...
...a dinner invitation for this coming Saturday night - to see my parents, my brother, his wife, and my little niece! :-)



Sunday, February 24, 2013

Day 55: Process + Angels

Today I learned...
...that it takes more than a day to process a day like the one I had yesterday.

Today I am thankful for...
...a small package I received in the mail from someone I don't even know. It held a small gift and it has to do with angels. Considering the day I had yesterday involved an angel reading, it all seems so serendipitous.

Saturday, February 23, 2013

Day 54: Powerful Happenings + Immense (International) Friendship


Today I learned...
...that extremely powerful things can happen when so much good energy is together. 

Today I am thankful for...
...the fantastic opportunity to meet the beautiful women in the above photo. Each one of them is so pure in her own way, so creative, and so inspiring. I sense SO MANY good times in our future and I feel so blessed to have been able to enjoy a full day of magic with Jenn and Rachel, followed by a dinner of laughter with them and Lisa, Kendra, and Caroline. I will never forget the day!



Friday, February 22, 2013

Day 53: Helping + Day Off

Today I learned...
...that people are often more willing to help you than you think they are. I have a lot of work at my job. A LOT. My caseload is out of control for the number of hours I am employed. My co-worker told me she would help me and sternly told me not to argue with her, but to leave any work I didn't get to for her to do, since I am going to be in NYC tomorrow for a day off. Her logic is: "You'd do it for me."

Today I am thankful for...
...my day off tomorrow...because it means I can visit NYC!